My Love for Marketing

This is not the first time that I wrote about my work. It is the love month for me so I also would like to share my love for my work.

I work in a one man marketing department wherein the owner of the company is the president and my marketing supervisor. I thought, at first, I will have a hard time for I am not a 100% marketing person as compared to medical representatives that really had a good training in sales and marketing. That's what I thought, and I am 50% right and 50% wrong about my assumptions.

I love my current job. It gives me the chance to be creative, be always on the look out to new things, and I got the opportunity that was never given to a marketing assistant to any company. My boss is kind enough to introduce me to the big people in the industry. My boss is kind enough to send me to trainings and seminars.

I have grown to be a person who appreciate money and the value of it. I have grown to a person with patience for everything will come in time only when you worked hard for it. I have grown to be a person with strong willed attitude to be able to get my goals. I have grown to incorporate my personal goals with my working goals.

In anything that you do, you can never get the satisfaction when you are not happy doing it. I

Falling in Love with a Married Men

Darn! That must hurt a lot.

Of course, it will definitely hurt. WTF!

With my side, I don't have the authority to judge those who were not able to check their guys to be married or not. It is a simple answer to the question why, because when you love someone you assumed he was honest to you. That's what love is.

"My last relationship was great. Almost four years and it has to end because I found out he was married." - Anonymous

I can't blame you Ms. Anonymous. But don't regret what happened because you got to be true, you've learned something from the experience.

"He said he won't cheat. How am I supposed to believe him when he already cheated at his wife now." - Sheilah

Good for you to know that. Don't linger on it for it will be no use to you. It'll hurt more if you'll keep on remembering his promises to you.

I say, move on. Every one of us, girls, are beautiful and there is someone out there who deserves more of our love and whom we deserve as well. Will respect us and love us and care for us. Men are men, no doubt about it. There is no such thing as men are the same. Well almost everyone are doing the same thing, cheating or not cheating, because they feel that they are men when they do that. Whatever men are doing or have done, girls can't make it right for their men nor bring back the past and redo everything. Us, girls, have to accept that it happened and feel the hurt and wallow but don't make our world stop only because we fell in love with the wrong guy.

Internet Love

i turn on my pc
and i see thee

someone is there
so beautiful i swear

we talk without speaking
we know each other yet, its so decieving

time passed and i grow fond of you
in my pc i dont feel blue

as long as you're online
to me everythings just fine

i havn't seen you with my eyes
but i belive that your words aren't lies

till the day i see your face
the internet is my love's place

till the time i see your smile
i'll love you through these files

Some people say internet love isn’t real
That it doesn’t exist
That it’s just words on a screen
Some people say Internet love is a lie
That you can’t really know the person behind the words
That people are fooling themselves
Some people say internet love can’t work
Because of the distances involved
Because of trust

But
I know better then all of these people
I know internet love is real

Because
I fell in love with those words on the screen
I fell in love with someone half a world away

And I know that one day
Some day
I will hold you
Alive
And warm
And real
In my arms.

And I will never
Ever
Let you go

Because I love you.

For Teddy that I loved

This is a poem for someone dear to me. It was distance that has kept us apart. It was distance that we were not able to talk and clear things out. Here's a part of that letter.


Teddy,

It was that day
When everything around me look in dismay
I found it out through instincts
And these strong feelings led me to burst
breathing becomes a burden
Air is so hard to grasp
It was the first time to see my heart shatter
Can't seem to know where it scatter.

I've wrote your name for hundred of times
crumpled the paper and throw it out to the ground
I don't see why my heart says you still got a chance
Wondering what could be the reason
why I continued to breath on
But when I was on my knees crying
And the crumpled paper was lying
I see the words

love you

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Month Love: Long Distance Relationship

I personally was in a long distance relationship and it was a great experience. Here are some that I have learned when I was in that relationship.

I'll go to the moon for you

For a couple who has been together for like months only, the feeling of getting to spend an hour with your girlfriend is like the only rush thing to do. I, for one, would like to spend an evening with my guy but he live thousand miles away from me. The first year is full of enthusiasm. I want him to spend every moment of the day with him. He talks about coming over. I ask, what if I don't show up, he would say, I'll find you. Sweet talks, sweet words and sweet smiles always kept your heart melting. This is the time that you both feel there is nothing on earth but only the two of you.

How do you define the long distance relationship?

First, I would definitely say, acknowledge the very fact that him coming over is not that easy and it needs money. Even if there is enough to buy tickets, don't ever let him come unless there is more than enough. Why? Because both of you will never enjoy the days together without money. Come on, be practical.

Second, list down what are the things needed to be able to continuously communicate with one another.

Third, understand the other side if there will be things that he or she can not do or could not buy for the moment. Especially when girl wants guy to buy camera, or new gadgets that makes distance so near.

Fourth, and the very most important of all, TRUST your partner.

Remaining faithfully yours, my love

If anyone who will get into this kind of relationship, you have to know that there can be something that will happen in between. It can either break or make the relationship stronger. Do not restrict your partner to go out. I, again, would be jealous if he went out with friends because I know he can meet someone in there.

The biggest thing to conquer is the absence of physical contact. It is dreading to think about this fact.

Let fate take its course

Be happy for the moment that there is someone out there loving you. But always stay true, if you found someone tell your partner but if you are into something big and you are sure it will hurt your lover, tell him or her too.

February: Love Month

I know it is not yet February but I am sure everyone out there is thinking what to do for their special someone.

My posts from this day till February will be all about love. Anything that is associated with love.

Leave your comments on every post.

Engrave the words "I Love You" in my Heart

Most of the time, people say "I love you" to someone special. It can be a friend, your parents or siblings, to your child or children and to your girlfriend or boyfriend. But do we know what "I love you" mean?

It is an interesting phenomena when someone starts saying "I love you" it creates sincerity, belongingness and happiness. Although, if it is said between friends it is misinterpreted and lead to confusion then heartache. The only time the meaning of "I love you" is ambiguous is when it is addressed to the person with whom you are having a romantic relationship.

Most people know what they think of "I love you" is the same thinking or meaning to the other, and this is what causes confusion. They assume that everyone else means the same thing they do, which may or may not be the case, but the assumption breeds certain expectations. In fact, "I love you" may mean just: I care about you very much; or it may mean: I want to spend the rest of my life with you; or, I'd like to know that you're available when I need you; or, I want to make love to you; or, I want to, if not own you, at least have an option on you; or any gradation in between, so what you say after you've said "I love you" is to explain what you mean by it. It doesn't matter what your particular definition is as long as both of you understand and agree upon it. The assumption that you know what other people mean when they say I love you is the major cause of heart burnings and misunderstandings in love relationships. If the other person doesn't act according to the assumptions you have as to the meaning of what was said, you feel betrayed.

Sometimes at the beginning of a relationship everything seems to be going quite well. The terms of the contract are tacitly agreed upon, the role models of girlfriends and boyfriends are close enough so that little or no conflict over them develops. Unluckily, despite what romance says, there are no relationship made in heaven, and all people change as they grow and mature. Something that is very appropriate for two people in their twenties may be absolutely impossible for the same two people at the age of thirty-five. The covenant (if in the case of marriage) may remain, but the contract needs to be renegotiated.

Personally, I like the way it was described by WikiHow.

Although many people use this powerful phrase loosely, there are times when you want to say "I love you" in a meaningful way. Whether you're professing your love to a romantic partner or expressing it to a relative or friend, it can be difficult to convey how much they really mean to you. Love reflects the intensity of how you feel. But by keeping the following suggestions in mind, hopefully your love will not only be understood, but it will also be welcomed and returned.

Here's a note for someone:

I loved you for who you are. There maybe times that we committed mistakes against each other, I have forgiven and you have forgiven me. For such time that I discover a hidden secret. You don't call it secret for you said you have told me about it. A story that was not clear to me. My heart says, I DON'T CARE.

I didn't ask the last time only because I don't want you to feel you are being manipulated and I strongly believed you need to do some of the things on your own for you to change for the better. I know that it can be the risk if I let you do things on your own. My fear is if the time will come that you will realize you can actually live in this world without me. But if that time comes and you decide to quit, I would let you go. You said that if you are not fighting for it, it is not worth having it. Letting you go is not giving up the fight. I have engraved the words "I love you" in my heart and it is only waiting for you to reply back........But, if it will keep on waiting it will fade in time.

I'd Still Say Yes

You should know by now that I still want you back.

I got hurt with it.

I handled it like it should be.

I don't care what had happened.

I'd still say yes, if you will be coming back.

Hope you are reading this.

Disclaimer

I write posts for this blog for I love to write what is on my mind. Coming from a little country, foreign people belittle me for they think I got little brain. The posts found in this blog is entirely my opinion on things. Some are reflections, and some are posts to honor a great person who look at me in the same level.

I am not here to dissatisfy whatever that is you have started. Neither it is my intention to attack you, or worst thing, stalk you. I admire a lot of people, and admiring is not bad. But to associate admiring as stalking is another thing.

I got hurt my other people's comment and was excessively happy with the others. This is what I expected to get when I decided to tell the world what this little brain can say about life.

This all about me. What I say, what I write, what I think and what I feel. This is not you nor her or him. I am the subject.